Contents

Acknowledging The Coupledom: The Domicile in Which The Relationship Resides

ADD, OCD, BPD, NPD: The ABC’s That Influence The Coupledom

Addressing “Married, with Infidelities” within The Coupledom

Adopted Adults Becoming Parents: Some Considerations

The Affair: A Symptom of Marriage Rot Or A Rotten Spouse?

The Affair: No Moralizing Here

Aftermath: Cleaning Up The Coupledom’s Holiday Mess

Al & Tipper: Growing Apart Green

An Article Worth Sharing: Pre-Marital Cohabitation

Bickering and The Coupledom: Read This Together

Bully Wives? Yes, But They Don’t Know It.

Can You Say No To A Narcissist? Co-Narcissism and The Coupledom

Charlie Sheened? When Your Spouse Is Unraveling, What To Do?

Contact Me

The Coupledom Ambles Towards Seniorhood

The Coupledom Contract: Who Gets Thrown Under The Bus?

The Coupledom Dreams: Using Our Unconscious To Communicate

The Coupledom: Is It Too Late?

Coupledoms, Focus On Education!

A Couples’ Challenge: Special Needs Children, Young and Adult

Couples Communication: What Are We Teaching Our Children?

Couples Counseling: A Tool For Life?

Couples Therapy Takes Courage

The Daily Challenge of Re Entry

Depression and The Coupledom: The Secret Menace

The Descendants An Award Winning Coupledom: What Can We Learn?

The Divorced Coupledom: Milestones Celebrated In Court

Divorced: Now What To Do With The Ex-Laws?

The Divorcing Coupledom: The Art of Uncoupling

A Divorcing Option: A Gracious Ending

Dodging The Bullock Bullet: Why Do Women Marry Philanderers?

Do You Need an Education to Stay Married?

Facebook, Welcome to The Coupledom: Managing the Challenge

The Factor of TIME: Underrated and Overlooked

50% Of Us Is Done: Marriage Over?

Finding Love Over Fifty Online?

Getting Married? How To Stay Sexy Together From The Inside Out

Great Couples Therapy: Takes Muscle

Great Father/Great Mother: Failed Coupledom?

Healing The Coupledom: Neurobiology and Couples Therapy

Holiday Mayhem for The Coupledom?

The Hot Potato of Blame Game

How I Work

How to Accept and Enjoy Differences

Husbands Have Changed: Have Wives Noticed?

Husbands Without Friendships or Heart: Why?

I Don’t Want To Lose My Children

Illness and Loss In The Coupledom: Reality Shifts

An Inspiration for Special Needs Families… But So Much More too

Interracial and Interfaith Marriage: Triangle Traps?

Is Our Child Gay? The Coupledom Grapples With “Difference”

Jealousy, Envy and The Coupledom: What’s Love Got To Do With It?

Kate and William: The Royal Coupledom

Knee Jerks

Lara Logan’s Brave Battle To “Out” Sexual Assault

Levels Of Betrayal: I Did Not Have Sex(T) With That Woman

The Limber Coupledom: Yielding Postures, Flexible Positions

“Love Means Never Having To Say You’re Sorry”: Excuse Me?

Maria And Arnold: A Rorschach Test

Marital Myths: I Thought I Could Change Him/Her

Marriage and The Immune System: Toxicity in the Coupledom

Married to Wikipedia: The Evolving Marriage

Midlife and The Coupledom: Part 2: A Toolkit of Strategies To Make The Midlife Coupledom Work: Prevention for Younger Couples is Key

Midlife and The Coupledom: The Perfect Storm, Part 1 of a 2 Part Series

“Money Matters” in The Coupledom: Budget 2012

More Gore: A Window Into Our Worries: And A Wake Up Call

Musical Beds: Bedtime and The Coupledom

My Approach: Strengthen The Coupledom

9/11

Nailing Down The Perfect Match

The Narcissist’s Stocking Stuffer: A Coupledom Alert

No Laughing Matter: Humor in Couples Therapy

Note To My Ex: What To Do With All That Stuff

No, You Are The Problem: Finger Pointing in The Coupledom

Normalizing Love: The Gay Coupledom Gets Married

One Day At A Time: Parenting Adult Special Needs

Our Child Is Gay; Hasidic; Autistic; Muslim; Bi-Polar; Asperger’s; Born Again: The Coupledom Adjusts

Owning Your Stuff Builds Coupledom Trust

A Parenting Quandary: Respect or Protect?

The Passive-Aggressive Punch: The Silent Code of Anger In The Coupledom

Personalize This! The Coupledom’s Achilles Heel

Recognizing The Co-Narcissism In Your Coupledom

The Rich Coupledom Under Siege

The Secret To A Happy Marriage: Self-Expansion

Sex In The Coupledom: A Powerful Absence

Sexual Pain Or Impaired Performance: No Shame, No Blame

Should Sandra Bullock Forgive Him? Forgiveness and The Coupledom: What Makes It So Difficult

Sibling Order Flavors The Coupledom: Oldest, Youngest, Middles and Onlies

The Singledom Blues

A Smart Mother’s Day for The Coupledom

Stereotyping The Coupledom

Tiger’s Tale: Tiger Woods, Elin; Denial and the Coupledom

To Marriage Therapy or Not To Marriage Therapy

Tone, Look, Word (TLW)

ToolKit of New Years Vows for Relationship 2010

Triangle Traps

Typically Asked Questions

The Un-Romantic Bed

Valentine’s Day and The Coupledom: Is This a Test?

Valentine’s Day Gifts Take Some Knowing

Valentines With Heart and Humor: A Developmental Approach

Weight Gain, Sex, And The Coupledom: Weight Tells A Story

What Are The Daughters Thinking? DSK, Schwarzenegger, Clinton

What Can We Learn From Katie Holmes? Don’t Stop Thinking About Tomorrow

What Do Your Children Know About Your Coupledom?

What Is The Media Doing To Our Marriages?

What we can learn about marriage from Michelle Obama

Who Listens? Let It Be Your Coupledom

Women are Frightened But Men Are Not Listening: The Disconnect in The Coupledom